Star News
Round table family traditions of celebrating the new year. Round table with parents "family traditions in the moral education of preschoolers". Proceedings of the meeting
Raisa Marks
Family traditions. Round table for parents
Round table
« Family traditions as a way to harmonize
childish - parental family relationships"
“Happy is he who is happy
at home."
L. N. Tolstoy.
Hello dear parents. I am glad to welcome you.
Today, in the course of our meeting, we touch upon a not simple, but very significant topic. « Family traditions» .
And I would like to start our communication with a little warm-up. I name the word, and your task is to choose the nouns that you associate with this word. To warm up, I offer you the floor "FAMILY" (parents give their own words-associations with this word)
What is family? A word that everyone understands "bread" And "water". It is with each of us from the first moments of life. Family is home, dad and mom, close people. These are common worries, joys and deeds. This is love and happiness.
What is most important in a family? (Answers parents)
It is very difficult to give a definite answer to this question. Love? Understanding? care and participation? Or maybe dedication and hard work? Or compliance family traditions? What do you understand by the definition of the word « family traditions» (slide 3?
Family traditions- these are the norms accepted in the family, manners of behavior, customs and views that are passed down from generation to generation.
Traditions- these are firmly established forms of people's behavior and their relationships inherited from previous generations. Family traditions and holidays give the baby a sense of the stability of the world.
Adults and children alike need to feel that they belong to a group. In childhood, this group is the family. A traditions, rituals, holidays serve as a kind of "cement" bonding family members, they give a sense of unity and community (slide 4)
It is very important for a preschooler to understand how his family differs from others, and how he differs from other children. That's why family holidays are an opportunity to show the individuality of each household member and convey "spirit" specific family.
Earlier in Rus' there were many traditions passed down from generation to generation. Once traditions were an obligatory component of a close-knit family, reflecting the moral position of all its members. They were a kind of code, a set of rules family life . Now the majority family traditions lost and hardly many of us can boast that some family tradition transmitted over 3-4 generations (slide 5)
Although some traditions we still keep since: for example, almost all families celebrate New Year and paint eggs for Easter, bake Easter cakes. Very loved by all become those traditions which are based on national, folk rituals. On Christmas Eve, put a candle on the window, cook and eat juicy after the first star, on Christmas - decorate the Christmas tree with stars and angels and look for gifts from Santa Claus under it, write a letter to Santa Claus (slide 6, sing carols on Christmas time. On Maslenitsa - bake pancakes. tradition, without which your loved ones could no longer do, you need regularity (slide 7).
Formation traditions you need to start at the very beginning of creating a family, when the children have not yet appeared or are still small. Traditions should be simple. The family is the closest people, and it is important to establish happy relationships in the family. traditions which will help the formation of the personality of the child and will warm him with their warmth all his life.
The family is our fortress. Family members are connected by thousands of invisible threads. And this is not only love, support, mutual understanding. The daily life of loved ones is permeated with many intimate trifles, rituals, traditions understandable only to them. Family traditions and customs are an essential attribute family happiness and prosperity. Introducing children from early childhood to family traditions instills in them the importance of family and family relationships. Family traditions are a factor, contributing to the preservation of relationships, strengthening relationships in the family.
Genealogy of your family. (Slide 8) Let's begin with family traditions Russia has never done without science genealogy: it was a shame not to know the pedigree, and the most offensive nickname was considered "Ivan, who does not remember kinship". Drawing up a detailed pedigree, your family tree was an integral part traditions of every family. By the way, to honor the memory of your relatives, to commemorate those who left this world, also belong to the original Russian traditions as well as ongoing care for the elderly parents.
There is also a wonderful custom to name a child after one of the family members (there are so-called « family names» ). In addition, our unique tradition patronymic assignment is considered. When a baby is born, he immediately receives part of the family name according to "nickname" my father. Patronymic distinguishes a person from namesake, sheds light on kinship (son-father) and expresses respect. To call someone by their patronymic means to be polite to them. Each of us is a successor of his kind. The roots of each kind, like the roots of a tree, go far into antiquity. And that kind is strong, who remembers and protects his ancestors. It will be very good if you start collecting the history of your kind in the family. It will be a kind of bridge between the generations of your ancestors and descendants.
old Russian tradition can be called the transfer and storage of things belonging to distant (and not so much) ancestors, their descendants. For example, great-grandmother's box or great-grandfather's watch, grandfather's field glasses, grandmother's homemade doll - family heirlooms which are stored for many years and passed on to the younger generation. The history of things becomes not only the property of a single family, but also the history of the people and the whole Homeland in general.
Simple family tradition- celebrate your birthday like the most the best holiday in a year. Let the baby realize its importance from childhood, and at the same time learn to receive guests. Let it go the best gift this day will be for him, which will mean a cheerful noisy holiday with guests whom he himself will invite (slide 9).
Better yet, create a custom that will accompany every birthday of yours. child: you can start an album, on each page of which you circle the baby’s leg or hand, or you can create an annual collage of photos, it’s good to take a picture of the child alone on the child’s birthday.
On birthdays, on holidays, it is customary to give gifts to children, they love and wait for them. Gifts should be a little for growth, but in moderation. Each toy should develop the child's thinking, attention, memory. Good to give children sports toys: balls, jump ropes. For the development of fine motor skills - pencils, plasticine, Lego. In this case, you should pay attention to how the child accepts the gift and how he thanks for it.
The main thing is that it brings joy to all family members.
Every family has its established, habitual actions: the husband came from work - he kissed the children and his wife, Saturday came - the whole family goes to dinner with his beloved grandmother, they give dad for every birthday "models", because he collects them, every evening everyone gets together for dinner table and discuss events that happened to each in a day, etc. (slide 10).
It is important that family traditions installed naturally and brought joy and a sense of security, maintained for years. Often, family traditions established spontaneously: for example, once the family went to the bathhouse - they liked it, they decided to go the next Saturday. So gradually it grew into a habit and turned into family tradition.
Each family is individual. That's why traditions families are different.
If family customs bring joy and pleasure, this gives children a strong sense of family, strengthens their confidence in the future. Exactly at childhood that charge of optimism and inner warmth is acquired, which each of us then carries with him all his life (slide 11).
Family the album is a huge meaningful space of life, on the one hand, simple and understandable to a child, on the other, mysterious and amazing.
The selection of photographs, the design of the pages of a photo album - exactly the communication that an older preschooler needs in his joint activities With parents. A specific image in the photograph is associated with one or another story from the life of family members, which arouses the keen interest of the child and stimulates his memorization.
Tell me which one of your family has tradition to go out of town, to the cottage with the child (slide 13?
It's no secret that nature has a huge impact on the development of the personality of a preschooler, makes it possible to communicate well with a child, and walks in nature have a positive effect on human health. How nice it is to gather the whole family on a hike, go on a picnic, to the country. wander along the forest paths or in the meadow, swim in the river, observe the life of insects, examine unfamiliar plants, collect natural material for crafts, it is good to read poetic lines suitable for the place, Children love to have a bite to eat in a forest clearing. And adults should teach the child to behave properly in nature: clean up after yourself, do not make noise, do not break bushes, etc. If such trips become tradition, then the child will wait and prepare for them, trying to spend time in nature more interesting and useful. Teach children to behave correctly in nature, to protect and protect our common home - the forest, which is a national wealth.
tradition in many families it is a family vacation trip. It must be summer, summer vacation time (slide 14). This is not only a pleasant pastime, but also an opportunity to learn a lot about the place where you are relaxing. If the family has the opportunity to go abroad together, then it is definitely worth a try.
Tell me what games and how often do you play with your child (slide 15? We can confidently say: childhood is a game, a game is childhood. Childhood is given so that we prepare the child for entering a rather complex social life, so that the child feels like a person among people, filled with social emotions, experiences, ideas, so that the spiritual life begins to move in him. And this game helps us. Play is the life of a child, not preparation for life. The game must become traditional in every family. There are a lot of games and toys. You should carefully and thoughtfully approach their selection. You have to play different games: desktop, mobile, verbal, developing. Good type of games "Lotto", "Domino", "Chess". We advise you to definitely play with your child and games with natural and waste material, tinker various crafts. It is important that both parent took part in the upbringing of children, played with them (lay 16).
Family Reading is the most accessible and shortest way to join the life experience of our ancestors and a wonderful means of developing the mental abilities of a child. (slide 17).
Home reading is one of the means of spiritual and moral education (slide 18). At the same time, it not only enriches children with knowledge about the purity of relationships, obedience, conscience, good and evil, but also brings together all family members, relatives and friends of different generations and different life experiences, even if the day parents scheduled by the minute, you need to find at least half an hour in the evening to sit by the child’s bed, talk with him, read a book (slide 19).
Family visits to theaters should become a tradition, museums, exhibitions. Who from parents constantly goes with children to museums, theaters (slide 20?
Man has always had a desire for beauty. Every nation has its own culture, its own customs, its own traditions. We, adults, should contribute to introducing children to the large and complex world of beauty and nature. Visiting museums should be a holiday for the whole family.
Our task is to help the child successfully enter the modern world, take a worthy place in the system of relations with other people. And here the emotional communication of the child with parents, joint games and various activities organized in the family, including collecting.
Collecting is one of family traditions(slide 21). It's great if the family has one tradition, if not, then you can offer to collect any collections at home, especially after visiting museums. As a result, the child awakens the need for creative activity, the ability to appreciate the beautiful and respect the work of other people. You can collect anything, the main thing is to rely on the interests of the child. A wide variety of collections will captivate and interest not only your child, but also other family members. You can collect cones, pebbles, shells, various beads, buttons, watches, wrappers, dolls, soldiers, etc. Visiting exhibitions and museums can give you an impetus in this type of activity. Then you can organize exhibitions of your collection for friends and relatives. And it happens that parents they themselves have been collecting something for a long time and the child takes all possible part in this.
The happier were traditions and more interesting knowledge of the world in parental family the more joy the baby will have in later life (slide 23). Joint trips to the theater and nature, family watching a new children's movie, visiting grandma for her birthday, making gifts for her with her own hands, reading before bed, freshly baked cake on Sundays - all this creates a friendly atmosphere of comfort, stability and mutual support in the family.
At the core traditions always lies the value of the family, which determines the meaning traditional behavior. If a child is raised in traditions humane attitude towards others, he not only shows compassion, respect, goodwill in communicating with family members, but also feels the misfortune of other people, animals, literary heroes. It is in our hands with you that children grow up literate and educated, well-bred, that they love and revere parents knew their ancestry.
If you decide to create a new tradition for your family, remember the main rules:
The custom should be bright, easy to remember for the baby and positive; - the custom should be observed always, and not from case to case;
Create family tradition already today - and who knows, maybe in a few decades your children will begin to talk about warm memories
of his childhood, and tradition will be passed down from generation to generation.
Which family traditions exist in your families? (Experience exchange)
FINAL PART (REFLECTION)
Thank you very much for your Active participation in work round table. We are ready to answer your questions.
Sinyavskaya Yulia Rafailovna ,
senior educator
first qualification category
municipal budgetary preschool educational institution
Kindergarten No. 23 "Vasilek"
Family Traditions in the Modern World
Outline of the round table for teachers and parents
Target:involvement of parents in the establishment of rules, norms of behavior, customs, traditions in the family, that is, in the formation of family values.
Tasks:
· reveal the meaning of the concept of "family traditions";
· determine the role of the family in shapingvalues of a preschooler;
· to cultivate a desire to observe existing family traditions;
· shape the rise of the status of the family in our society;
· to promote the establishment of friendly, good relations in the family;
Outline plan
IPart:Introductory remarks by the senior teacher:
Good afternoon, dear teachers and parents! Our today's meeting is devoted to a very topical problem - the problem of family traditions in the modern world.
What is the modern family like? Do we, modern parents, consider traditions the most important means of upbringing in the family?
Before starting our conversation, I offer you an interesting warm-up.
A game. From ancient times, fairy tales, proverbs and sayings about the family have come down to us. Now we will remember them, I begin, you finish. So, let's begin:
· Being a guest is good, but being at home is better);
· He does not paint the hut with coals, but (paints with pies);
· What is at home, such is (to oneself);
· Children are not a burden, but (a joy);
· When the family is together and (the heart is in place);
· To every mother his own (child is sweet);
· You will find everything in the world except (mother and father);
· The mother feeds the children as (the land of the people);
· There is no kinder person (father and mother);
· There is no more expensive (father and mother);
· Family is (seven I).
Many scientists say today that traditions are practically lost in the modern family, which negatively affects the upbringing of the younger generation.
In preparation for this event, the educators had a conversation with the pupils on the topic: "Our family traditions." It turned out that our children do not know that they have family traditions and that each family has its own. It can be concluded that parents at one time did not convey to their children the meaning of the words "FAMILY", "FAMILY TRADITIONS". But this is very important for the child! If the family has its own traditions, then the child will feel confident and protected in this life.
I suggest you think about what the word “tradition” means (statements of parents). On the slide in front of you is the definition of this concept, found in the dictionary. Read and analyze how this definition matches your ideas about family traditions.
Dahl dictionary definition: Tradition - forms of activity and behavior transmitted from generation to generation, as well as customs, rules, values, and ideas accompanying them. The tradition is formed on the basis of such forms of activity, which have repeatedly confirmed their significance and personal benefits. When there is a change in the social situation of the development of a particular community, the tradition can be destroyed, transformed and replaced by a new one. Traditions are the most important factor in the regulation of people's life, they form the basis of education.
And now I have a request to you to raise your hand to those who believe that the preservation and transmission of family traditions is necessary for educating the younger generation. And who thinks that today it is quite possible to do without it? Please try to argue your position.
IIPart:teacher's speech:
What is it - "Family Traditions"?
These are, of course, the holidays that families celebrate (birthday, New Year, etc.). It may be a tradition to plant a tree or go out of town on New Year's Eve to decorate live Christmas tree. It is a tradition to visit museums, exhibitions, theaters with the child. These are joint games, or congratulations from relatives. These are traditional, walks, picnics in nature. This is the compilation of family albums, the genealogy of your family.
The game "Sunshine" is being played.
Take each one of the sunbeams that are pre-made for you and write with a marker any family tradition, And it doesn't have to be your family tradition. Now, voicing the tradition that you wrote, we attach our rays to the sun.
Since there are families in the group that do not yet have family traditions, we will try to offer a variety of traditions.
Tradition 1. Family holidays
Are holidays necessary for children in the family, what do you think? (answers)
Of course, yes, a holiday is simply necessary for a child to fully develop. For a child, a holiday is not at all what it is for us adults. A holiday is an unforgettable event in a child's life. Each child counts the days from holiday to holiday, like us, his years from one event to another. “Dim and gray would be this childhood if holidays were thrown out of it” / K. Ushinsky/.
Do you arrange children's holidays in the family? How do you do it? (answers)
It must be remembered that the holiday is not for an adult, but for a child. You can often observe the following picture: the baby is bored at his birthday (everyone forgot about him), or vice versa, all the attention is on him and the child is a witness to adult conversations and a participant, then he gets used to being the center of attention, which develops in him indiscretion, swagger.
Do not force the child to perform if he does not want to. He himself must express his desire to sing, to recite a poem.
Do you think it is necessary to decorate an apartment for the holiday? What is it for? What does it give the child? (parents' answers)
Is it important for everyone, both children and adults, to participate?
Everyone loves to receive gifts, especially children.
Do you give gifts to your children? Which? (answers of parents).
The gift should be a little for growth, but in moderation. Each toy should develop the memory, thinking, attention of the child. Develop physically: balls, jump ropes, hoops. For development fine motor skills- pencils, plasticine. At the same time, it is necessary to pay attention to the mood with which the child accepts the gift and how he thanks for it.
It’s good if you take pictures of a child with your family on your birthday. Also think over a program for entertainment, purchase various trinkets for games - attractions, the success of children's creativity depends on the fiction and imagination of adults.
Tradition 2
And now I offer a comic warm-up. Try to count how many people are in the family.
“Listen, here is my family:
Grandpa, grandma and brother
We have order in the house, okay
And purity, why?
We have two mothers in our house,
Two dads, two sons.
Sister, daughter-in-law, daughter
And the youngest is me.
What kind of family do we have?
(6 people, brother, sister, their parents, grandparents)
With the help of such a riddle, we touched interesting topic- family relationships.
Each of us is a successor of his kind. And the roots of each kind, like the roots of a tree, go far into antiquity. And that kind is strong, who remembers his ancestors and protects.
As an example, I propose a family tree, pay attention to the slide. Try to make your family tree, start with yourself (5 min. task).
Who came up with the name for you? Where are your parents from? Grandpas? grandmothers? Who came up with the name for your child?
It will be very cool if you start collecting the history of your kind. It will be a kind of bridge between the generations of your ancestors and descendants. This will be your family biography, which you can simply and intelligibly tell your children about.
Tradition 3 Family Archives
It's not the past, it's always tomorrow.
The family must have its own archive: certificates, medals of fathers, grandfathers, history of their family and surname.
Definitely a family album.
Tradition 4 Family Album
This is a huge space of our life, on the one hand, simple and understandable to a child, on the other hand, mysterious and amazing.
When was the last time you flipped through your family album?
Examining photographs, designing album pages - this is exactly the kind of communication that an older preschooler needs in his joint activities with his parents.
The image in the photograph is always associated with some story from the life of family members, this arouses the keen interest of the child and stimulates his memorization.
Tradition 5 Family Outdoor Recreation
How many of you have such a tradition - to go to nature (to the country) with your child?
Nature has a positive effect on the child. It develops the personality of a preschooler, makes it possible to communicate well with a child. Walking in nature has a positive effect on human health, develops it, teaches how to protect the environment, gets acquainted with the life of plants, animals, birds, insects.
Tradition 6 Family visits to theaters, museums, exhibitions
And now let's find out which of you constantly goes with children to museums, theaters, exhibitions? (parents' answers)
Man at all times is characterized by the desire for beauty. As we know, every nation has its own culture, customs and traditions. We adults should contribute to introducing children to the large and complex world of beauty, nature, and art. Visiting museums should be a holiday not only for the child, but for the whole family.
Tradition 7 Collecting
It is very good when a family has a tradition. And if not, then you can offer - collecting. Gather together any collections, especially after visiting the museum, there is a choice (pebbles, shells, driftwood, candy wrappers, beads, stamps). As a result, the child awakens the need for conscious activity, the ability to appreciate the beautiful and respect the work of people.
One of our most important tasks is to help the child successfully enter the modern world, to take a worthy place there in the system of relations with other people.
Tradition 8 Joint games with a child
What games did you like as a child?
What games do you play with your child?
Do you know what kind of activity is leading in preschool age?
We can say with confidence "Childhood is a game, a game is childhood."
Childhood is given in order to prepare the child for entry into a rather complex social life, to be replenished with emotions and experiences. And the main task of preparing for this falls on you - the parents. The game is the life of a child and the choice of games should become traditional in every family. Lots of games and toys. You should carefully approach their selection. You need to play various games: board, mobile, verbal, educational.
Very good games of this type: lotto, dominoes, checkers, chess. We recommend that you definitely play games with natural and waste material. For example: “Guess what tree the fruit is from?”, “Who, who was?”, “What can fly?”, “Find what looks like an orange.”
It is in your power to raise children who are literate, educated, educated, loving and respectful of their parents, who know their ancestry.
IIIPart:summarizing.
Presentation by the senior teacher.
In conclusion of the meeting, I propose to use the "Magic Piggy Bank" technique. The participants of the round table are invited to answer what they would like to put into the piggy bank and take with them into the future from the acquired knowledge.
Senior teacher:
Let's sum up this meeting. Family traditions certainly occupy important place in the development of the child's personality, we, parents and teachers, must pay due attention to this area of our life in order to educate a worthy citizen of our country. After all, everything starts with the family.
Parents are given memos "Values of family education"
ROUND TABLE
"Family traditions"
Tasks:
- to cultivate love for one's family, to show the importance of the family in the upbringing of the younger generation;
- to emphasize the kind, attentive attitude of family members to each other;
- to instill pride and respect for family traditions.
Preliminary work:
- talking with children about family and family traditions;
- make gifts for parents with children;
- reading fiction, memorizing poems.
- collection of material for a photo exhibition;
- production of "Genealogical tree"
Meeting progress:
1 part:
- Hello, dear children. Good afternoon, dear parents and guests. Today we have gathered to talk about the family, about family traditions and their importance in the upbringing and development of the child. The moral health of the family, its spiritual values and, consequently, its potential educational opportunities can be judged by the traditions established in it. Tell your parents, what do you understand by the word tradition?
(parents' answers)
Tradition in Latin means "transfer". Tradition is what was passed down from one generation to another, what was inherited from previous generations (views, tastes, ideas, customs).
If you pronounce the word “childhood” and close your eyes, then along with your loved ones, with your native walls, something special will arise in your mind that is unique to your family. This "something" is a family tradition. And it is remembered only because it was repeated many times .. Family traditions are a huge workshop in which everything is intertwined: inspiration, play, joy, creativity, skill, accuracy, art. It is known that each family has its own “living soul”, which has both a blooming garden of Eden and springs of “living” water.
Good traditions like these springs strengthen - give life to the family. Each clan, family has its own treasury of traditions, which, together with the dowry in forged chests, were inherited by children.
Every family has its own way of bringing children into common family traditions.
For some, these are family meals (lunches, dinners) - a wonderful tradition of getting together at the same table for communication.
Others share leisure time. A good continuation of the lunch will be joint leisure, for example, you can play some board game. Or go to nature and spend time actively in the fresh air.
The third - family holidays. Each family has its own special traditions of celebrating family holidays. But each of them is shrouded in the mystery of love, warmth and tenderness of the family hearth.
Tell me who is dearest to you most in the world? (answers of children and parents) I agree with your answers that the family is the most important thing in life for a person and what happiness that you have wonderful families, there is a parental home - the beginning of all beginnings.
Family is the most important thing that each of us has. Family is a place where we will always look forward to returning. Where family and friends are always waiting for us and love. After all, it’s not for nothing that they say: “My family is my support, my family is my fortress.”
The family and its meaning are well described in the poem by Tatyana Bulkovskaya “What can be more precious than a family?” (children read the verse)
What could be more expensive than a family? Warmly welcomes the father's house, Here they always wait for you with love And see you on the road with good! Father and mother, and children together holiday table, and together they are not at all bored, But five of them are interesting. A kid is like a favorite for the elders. Parents are wiser in everything, Beloved dad is a friend, breadwinner, And mom is the closest, relative. And appreciate happiness! It is born in the family, What could be more precious in this fabulous land
Part 2 - Discussion of the family tree!
- Tell me, what do you think, are all families the same? Yes, different. And how do they differ?
(answers of parents - habits, way of life, customs, atmosphere, traditions).
A person is born into the world, grows, thinks: who am I? Where am I from? Where are my roots from? Since ancient times, one of the traditions in Russian families has been the tradition of learning about their ancestors, compiling their genealogy - a family tree. And so you and your parents tried to compile your family trees. We would like to know more about your family tree.
-How many names does your family tree include?
-How long have you been working on it?
-Who helped in compiling your pedigree?
-I wonder what this job gave you?
-And who has already compiled a pedigree?
- I want to advise you not to throw away your works, keep them for your family, replenish your tree, learn about your relatives. And let this be your good family tradition.
Part 3 - Conversation about family traditions (family stories about themselves)
And now I want to ask you to tell about your family. What traditions do your families have, what holidays do you celebrate, etc.
Photo exhibition "Look into the family album"
- In the design of our hall, we used the photo exhibition “look into the family album”. Since 1929, when the French artist and designer Dagel invented photography, the tradition of compiling and storing family albums has firmly entered our lives. Every family has photographs that leave a memory of dear people, events in family life for a long time. Here at our exhibition are photographs from the family albums of our group. We organized this exhibition first in our group. The children and I looked at the photo albums with great interest. After all, only thanks to photographs, for example, can we learn something about our distant relatives or look into the past.
Physical education minute
Part 4 - Game "Culinary"
One of the most common Russian traditions was a feast. Entire generations gathered at the common table, the owners regaled them with some kind of food. Culinary traditions were not in the last place in Rus'. Previously, cabbage soup, porridge, turnips, radishes, game, and fish were held in high esteem. From drinks beer, kvass. Everything flows, everything changes the tastes of people and other dishes appear on our tables and become traditional. I invite you and your children to draw your traditional dish and tell us about it. (parents and children draw their favorite dish)
You need to start your story with the words “traditional in our family is ....” . And you need to end the story with the words "lick your fingers."
Discussion of drawings.
Part 5 - Gifts for parents.
There is another good tradition - to give gifts to relatives and friends. And what are the best gifts to give? - handmade. My children and I have made handmade gifts for you and we want to give them to you.
Conclusion
- Well, our round table has come to an end. It is very important to follow family traditions, honor them, pass them on from generation to generation, most importantly, they are needed to strengthen the family, so that you have a home where you would like to constantly return.
Only from the standpoint of mutual responsibility and obligations of parents and teachers in relation to the child can good results be achieved. And I would like to end our mini meeting with the words “We influence the family through the child and for the child, we influence the child through the family and for the family”
Being a guest is good, but being at home is better).
- The hut is not red with corners, but ... (red with pies).
- What is at home, such is ... (to yourself).
- Children are not a burden, but ... (a joy).
- When the family is together, and ... (heart in place).
“The family is the primary womb of human culture. Here the dormant forces of the child's soul awaken and begin to unfold: here the child learns to love, believe and sacrifice, here the first foundations of his character are formed, here the main sources of his future happiness and bad weather are revealed in the soul of the child, here the child becomes a small person, from which a great a person or, perhaps, a low rogue ”(I.A. Ilyin).
The family is an environment in which a fundamental need is satisfied small child be taken seriously and be respected in the future. In a family, children from the first days of life receive a valuable experience of forgiveness, compliance, adoration, support from loved ones, they feel attention, admiration and devotion from loved ones (Z. Mateychek).
The family gives the child the main thing - something that no other social institution can give: an intimate - personal connection and unity with relatives. The social function of the family is the psychological rear, protection, shelter. The mother is the main teacher of the preschooler. The function of mother, parents is to teach the child to live. But at the same time, a beloved mother should not duplicate a state institution and act as a teacher, thereby injuring the baby.
The well-being of children is the pinnacle of parenthood. And if the measure of all things is man, then the “measure” of parents is the child.
In your opinion, who has the leading role in raising a child - the family or the kindergarten?
The priority in raising a child, no doubt, belongs to the family. Kindergartens are family helpers, creating the necessary "conditions for the continuation of the child's life in the family." (I.V. Shalamova).
The modern family is strengthened by the emotional bonds between parents and children. The nature of a child's emotional well-being or distress is determined by his emotional relationships with adults in the family. Communication with adults is one of the most important factors that influence the development of the child.
The only true luxury is the luxury of human interaction. Do we know how to use this luxury in our families, do we teach this to our children.
Today we are going to talk about family traditions.
Please answer the questions of the mini-questionnaire.
And here is what your children told about the holidays and family traditions.
(results of the survey of children)
A few words on the results of testing children "Who will I sit at the table with."
The purpose of the test: to check the relationship of the child to family members (test results) - educator G.F. Nepomnyashchikh.
Family traditions - of course, these are holidays that are celebrated by all family members, gala dinners on weekends, when the whole family is together and gets a festive service. It can be a tradition to plant a tree or decorate a Christmas tree in the yard on New Year's Eve. It is a tradition to go to cinemas, theaters, an amusement park, a zoo, etc. with a child. These are joint games. This is a congratulations to relatives. These are traditional hikes, walks and picnics in nature. This includes compiling one's pedigree and compiling family albums. This is both collecting and choosing a profession. These are the holidays for the birthday of the child.
Do you think holidays are necessary for children in the family?(answers of parents).
Educator: Yes, for the full development of a child, a holiday is necessary like air. A holiday for a child is not the same as for us adults. A holiday is an event in a child's life, and a child counts his days from holiday to holiday, like us, his years from one important event to another. And vice versa, “this childhood would be dull and gray if holidays were thrown out of it,” wrote K.D. Ushinsky.
How do you arrange children's holidays in your family?
Educator: Oddly enough, adults often arrange children's holidays for themselves. Adults have their own interests and conversations, but a child is bored and offended at such a holiday, everyone forgot about him. However, if the child is left at the common table, he becomes a witness and participant in adult conversations, then he gets used to being the center of attention, which develops immodestness and swagger in him.
It should also be remembered that one should not try to force him to speak against the will of the child: to sing or recite poetry. The child himself will express a desire to sing or dance if it falls out to him during the game or for fun.
Do you think it is necessary to decorate an apartment or a room for the holiday? What does it give the child?
It is desirable to decorate. It creates a certain mood. And it is important to take part in this for both adults and children.
On birthdays, on holidays, it is customary to give gifts to children, they love and wait for them.
What gifts do you give to your children?
Gifts should be a little for growth, but in moderation. Each toy should develop the child's thinking, attention, memory. It is good to give children sports toys: balls, jumping ropes. For the development of fine motor skills - pencils, plasticine. In this case, you should pay attention to how the child accepts the gift and how he thanks for it.
It is good to take a picture of a child alone or with his family on his birthday.
In many families, there is a tradition to celebrate the growth of a child at the door - let him see how much he has grown in a year.
In order for a child to remember a birthday, you need to think over the program in advance: games, entertainment, attractions, contests, a concert. The holiday will be decorated with surprises, and fairy-tale characters, in whose costumes adults can dress up. The success of a children's celebration depends on the imagination and imagination of adults.
Celebrating holidays in the family, we show children a sample of our rest and leisure activities. Having matured, just as we will rest and our children. Let no one in your home feel lonely and unwanted. Involve your child in making gifts for relatives. This will sow seeds of kindness in your child.
Now I will give you a task: try to count how many people there are in this family.
Listen, here's my family:
Grandpa, grandma and brother.
We have order in the house, okay
And purity, why?
We have two mothers in our house,
Two dads, two sons,
Sister, daughter-in-law, daughter,
And the youngest is me.
What kind of family do we have?
(6 people)
You see, with the help of this comic puzzle, we touched on an interesting topic with you - the topic of family relationships. There are many people around each of us, relatives with whom we are connected in the history of the human race by the same blood. And each of us is a successor of his kind. And the roots of each kind, like the roots of a tree, go far into antiquity. And that kind is strong, who remembers and protects his ancestors.
Try to make a genealogy of the family now. Start with yourself (time 5 minutes is given).
Who has the most numerous genus?
Do you know where your parents, grandparents are from?
Who came up with the name you have?
Who came up with the name for your child? Does he know about it?
It will be very good if you start collecting the history of your kind in the family. It will be a kind of bridge between the generations of your ancestors and descendants. Plant your family tree - the tree of your kind. It will be the most precious part of the legacy we can and should leave behind. This will be your biography, simply and intelligibly retold for grandchildren. And this can provide good help family book "It's me, your grandmother."
“Respect for the past is the feature that distinguishes education from savagery” (A. Pushkin).
Family archives are not the past, they are always tomorrow. The family should have its own archive - certificates of honor of grandfathers and fathers, the history of their merits, their work, the history of the clan and surname. After all, over the years, our grandchildren will want to know how we lived. But the life allotted to us is by its nature short, but it is in our power to leave a memory of it.
(Family album)
Is there a family album in your house?
A family album is a huge meaningful space of life, on the one hand, simple and understandable to a child, on the other, mysterious and amazing.
When was the last time you flipped through it?
The selection of photographs, the design of the pages of the photo album is exactly the kind of communication that an older preschooler needs in his joint activities with his parents. A specific image in the photograph is associated with a particular story from the life of family members, which arouses a keen interest in the child and stimulates his memorization.
Tell me, which of you in your family has a tradition of going on vacation to the forest?
It's no secret that nature has a huge impact on the development of a preschooler's personality, makes it possible to communicate well with a child, and walks in nature have a beneficial effect on human health. How nice it is to get together and go with the whole family to the forest, where together with the child to wander along the forest paths, listen to the voices of birds, observe the life of insects, admire the beauty of the surrounding nature, play natural games with the child, for example: “Guess the tree from the description”, “Which tree is the leaf from”, “Who lives where”, “What grows where”, - invite the child to draw from nature interesting things in nature, adapting plywood for this and sitting on a stump, how good it is to read poetic lines suitable for the place in nature, collect natural material with children: cones, acorns, twigs, snags and make funny crafts at home, have a snack in a forest clearing and don’t forget to pick up your trash when you leave. Thus, teaching the child to behave correctly in nature, to protect and protect our common home - the forest, which is a national wealth.
Which of you constantly travels with your children to museums, cinemas, a circus, a recreation park, a zoo?
Man has always had a desire for beauty. Each nation has its own culture, its own customs, its own traditions. We, adults, should contribute to introducing children to the large and complex world of beauty and nature. Visiting museums should be a holiday for the whole family.
It is very good if the family has a tradition, if not, then it is not too late to start collecting some collections at home, especially after visiting museums. As a result, the child awakens the need for creative activity, the ability to appreciate the beautiful and respect the work of people.
Yes, of course, you can put a child at the table and teach them to write letters and numbers, but we must remember that learning is a task. elementary school that early learning leads to deterioration mental development children (intellectual and personal), which manifested itself in the mass unpreparedness of preschoolers for schooling. Our task is to help the child to successfully enter the modern world, to take a worthy place in the system of relations with other people. And here the emotional communication of the child with parents, joint games and various events organized in the family, including collecting, are of great importance.
What can be collected in the family?
A variety of natural collections will captivate and interest the child. These are cones and pebbles, shells and driftwood, various pieces of glass. It is good to collect stamps, candy wrappers, beads, etc. Visiting various exhibitions and museums can give you a boost in this type of activity.
Tell me, what games and how often do you play with your child?
What type of activity is leading in preschool childhood?
We can say with confidence: childhood is a game, a game is childhood. Childhood is given so that we prepare the child for entering a rather complex social life, so that the child feels like a person among people, filled with social emotions, experiences, ideas, so that the spiritual life begins to move in him. And this game helps us. Currently, serious attention is paid to the play activities of children, since it is the game that creates favorable conditions for the development of the individual. We, adults, should be very attentive to the issue of children's play and pay serious attention to it. Allocate a place for play in the daily routine, should not violate the freedom of the child's play, change their position during the game in accordance with the role they have taken on. Play is the life of a child, not preparation for life. The game should become traditional in every family.
There are a lot of games and toys. You should carefully and thoughtfully approach their selection. You need to play various games: board, mobile, verbal, educational. Good games like "Lotto", "Domino", "Chess". We advise you to definitely play with your child and games with natural and waste materials. For example: “Guess which plant the seeds are from”, “Who will be who”, “Who was who”, “What can fly”, “Find a similar apple”, etc.
It is in our hands that the children grow up literate and educated, well-bred, that they love and honor their parents, that they know their genealogy.
round table proposals.
Think about which of the activities proposed by the kindergarten can be made traditional in the family.
- Bring a family photo to the group to design the photo album “Families of our pupils”.
Mini-questionnaire "Every house has its own traditions."
- What, in your opinion, is included in the concept of "family traditions"?
- What family traditions do you have in your family?
- Do family traditions influence the upbringing of a child?
- What positive character traits do they bring up in a child?
1st part
Dear parents! I am very glad that we all gathered today, and we gathered to talk about your families, about your family traditions and their importance in the upbringing and development of your child.
According to the definition of V. I. Dahl, a FAMILY is a set of close relatives living together: parents with children.
For a long time about the house, the family has always been spoken of with love and respect. From ancient times, legends, fairy tales, proverbs and sayings about the family have come down to us. Who can name proverbs or sayings, let's ask the parents.
Being a guest is good, but being at home is better;
Children are not a burden, but a joy;
When the family is together and the heart is in place
The mother feeds the children, as the land of the people;
There is nothing dearer than a father and mother;
Family is family.
Each family should have its own traditions, but some families do not observe traditions, and do not even know what it is. Today I want to talk about the traditions that exist in many families.
Tradition 1. Family holidays
Do you think holidays are necessary for children in the family? (answers)
Yes, for the full development of a child, a holiday is necessary like air. For a child, a holiday is not the same as for us adults. A holiday is an event in a child's life, and the child counts his days from holiday to holiday, like us, his years from one event to another.
How do you arrange children's holidays in the family? (answers)
Do not forget, the holiday is not for an adult, but for a child. Sometimes the baby is bored at his birthday (everyone forgot about him), and vice versa, all the attention is on him and the child is a witness to adult conversations and a participant, then he gets used to being the center of attention, which develops immodestness and swagger in him.
You should not force the child to perform if he does not want to. He himself must express his desire to sing, dance, if it falls out to him during the game or for a phantom.
How do you think you need to decorate an apartment for the holiday? What does it give the child? (parents' answers)
Is it important for everyone, both children and adults, to participate?
Everyone loves gifts, especially children.
What gifts do you give to children? (parents' answers).
The gift should be a little for growth, but in moderation. Each toy should develop the child, develop memory, thinking, attention. Develop physically: balls, jump ropes. For the development of fine motor skills - pencils, plasticine. In this case, you need to pay attention to how the child accepts the gift and how thanks for it.
It is good to photograph a child with family on his birthday. To think over an entertainment program, to purchase various trinkets for games - attractions, the success of children's creativity depends on the fiction and imagination of adults.
Tradition 2. Family archives
It's not the past, it's always tomorrow.
The family should have its own archive: certificates of honor, medals of fathers, grandfathers, family history and surnames.
Tradition 3. Family album
This is a huge meaningful space of life, on the one hand, simple and understandable to a child, on the other hand, mysterious and amazing.
When was the last time you flipped through it?
The selection of photographs, the design of the pages of the album is exactly the kind of communication that an older preschooler needs in his joint activities with his parents.
A specific image in the photograph is associated with one or another story from the life of family members, which arouses the keen interest of the child and stimulates his memorization.
Tradition 4. Family vacation in nature
Tell me, which of you has traditions to travel out of town, to the country with your child?
Nature has a huge impact on the child on the development of the personality of a preschooler, makes it possible to communicate well with the child, and walks in nature have a positive effect on human health, develop him, teach him to protect the environment, get acquainted with the life of plants, animals, birds, insects.
Tradition 5. Family visits to theaters, museums, exhibitions
Which of you constantly goes with children to museums, theaters, exhibitions?
Human beings always have a desire for beauty. Each nation has its own culture, its own customs, its own traditions. We adults should contribute to introducing children to the large and complex world of beauty, nature, and art. Visiting museums should be a holiday for the whole family.
Tradition 6. Collecting
It is very good that there is a tradition in the family, but if not, then you can offer to collect any collections, especially after visiting the museum there is a choice (pebbles, shells, driftwood, candy wrappers, beads, stamps). As a result, the child awakens the need for conscious activity, the ability to appreciate the beautiful and respect the work of people.
Our task is to help the child successfully enter the modern world, take a worthy place in the system of relations with other people.
Tradition 7. Games with a child
Tell me, what games and how do you play with your child?
What type of activity is leading in preschool age?
We can say with confidence Childhood is a game, a game is childhood.
Childhood is given so that we prepare the child for entry into a rather complex social life, replenished with emotions, experiences, ideas, so that the spiritual life in him begins to move. Irga is the life of a child and the choice of games should become traditional in every family. Lots of games and toys. You should carefully approach their selection. You need to play various games: board, mobile, verbal, educational.
Good games like loto, dominoes, checkers, chess. We advise you to definitely play games with natural and junk material. For example: “Guess what plant the seeds are from? "," Who, who was? "," What can fly? ”, “Find what looks like an apple.”
It is in your hands to raise children who are literate, educated, well-mannered, loving and honoring their parents, who know their pedigree.
There are a lot of traditions, you can plant a tree or go out of town on New Year's Eve to decorate a live Christmas tree. It is a tradition to visit museums, exhibitions, theaters with the child. These are traditional hikes, walks, picnics in nature. This is the compilation of family albums, the genealogy of your family. This is reading books.
2nd part:
Dear parents! Let's take a look at a few situations together with you:
SITUATION 1: The boy was punished. He got two deuces. His father had a serious talk with him and, as a punishment, did not allow him to leave the house. Friends came and invited him to go to the cinema. Mom took pity on her son and began to persuade his father to let him go with friends. There was a conflict between the parents.
What is the right thing to do to avoid conflict?
LAW: Parents must make uniform demands on their child.
SITUATION 2: Parents decided to go out of town, to work in the country. Everyone found a job, except Petya. He was offered to weed the beds, to bring water from the spring, but he refused all offers. He ran around the garden for butterflies, shouted, interfered with work. Why did such a situation arise?
LAW: The foundations of industriousness must be laid from childhood.
SITUATION 3: The girl really wanted to make a surprise for her mother. She came home from school, washed the dishes, cooked dinner. Mom came home from work. The girl rushed to her and kissed her. Mom was not in the mood and did not react to the kiss. Then the daughter invited her to the table for supper. After dinner, my mother said thank you and went to her room. What would you do in her place?
LAW: A child needs affection, praise.
4 SITUATION: Mom came home from work, her son met her at the entrance to help carry bags to the fifth floor. At home, he offers her slippers and sets the table. After dinner, the boy sat down to do his homework in Russian with his mother, as he could not cope on his own. Mom explained the task to him, checked the diary, praised him for the "A" and hugged him tenderly. What do you think about the relationship between the members of this family?
LAW: Respectful attitude of family members to each other.
5 SITUATION: There are two children in a family: a brother and a sister. My brother is in 4th grade, my sister is in kindergarten. Sister is given more attention, since she is still small. They buy toys for her more often than for her brother, based on the fact that he has come out of this age. The boy is very offended, but the parents do not react to this. What should we not forget when raising children of different ages?
LAW: The family must have a correct and even distribution of material and moral resources for children.
CONCLUSION: If these laws are replenished in the family, then the child will take place as a person.
